How To Be Better In Bed - Top 6 Sex Mistakes Men Make 

 

 

Learning how to be better in bed is a common goal of most of the men I know—it’s right up there with “lose the beer gut” and “figure out how to get paid for playing video games.

 

There are a few common mistakes that most men make, so avoiding these can help you claim that “great in bed” title.

 

Mistake #1: Making Jokes Most jokes in the bedroom only cover up your insecurities, and they’re not really funny—we just laugh to make you feel better and cringe in the inside.

 

Your little jokes when you aren’t rising to the occasion or when you’re feeling self conscious about some extra weight only act as mood killers.

 

Instead, go with the flow and keep focusing on kissing and otherwise pleasing your lady.

 

Mistake #2: Cutting the Chatter While jokes and small talk are not exactly appropriate if you want hot, steamy sex, you shouldn’t be completely silent.

 

Think about how you feel when your girl is moaning for you to keep going or by talking dirty. It’s a total turn-on so talk dirty rather than small talk.

 

Mistake #3: Heading Out the Door Less than Ten Minutes after Unzipping your Pants

 

I’m not knocking a quickie every once in a while—they can be a lot of fun.

 

However, if “quickie” is your usual, your girl probably isn’t getting the maximum pleasure she needs to call you “amazing” in bed when she’s talking to her girlfriends.

 

Have problems jumping the gun, so to speak? Don’t worry—you can fill time with foreplay before and cuddles after.

 

Give her an orgasm from oral sex before any intercourse.

 

Mistake #4: Not Knowing the Anatomy Never heard of the G-spot? Now we have a problem.

 

Before you dive into bed with any girl, make sure you’ve done a little research so that you at least understand her anatomy on a beginner’s level.

 

You don’t have to be a gynecologist, but it helps to have an educational head start.

 

Mistake #5: Acting Like You’re in a Porno With porn, it is all about fantasy and perfection.

 

Acting like you’re a porn star or treating your partner like one will just lead to disappointment in the end. I’m not saying that you can’t fulfill your fantasies, but having porn-quality expectations is definitely not a good thing in bed. *

 

Mistake #6 : Lack of Lube Not every girl is instantly wet.

 

Don’t take it personally; a lot of things could make it hard for a girl to get wet, even if she is very turned on.

 

Your spit isn’t going to be good enough (trust me, I’ve tried that), so make sure you have some lube by your bed in case you need it.

 

Oral sex is one of the best ways of getting a woman to orgasm. Many women only have orgasm from oral sex and not from intercourse.